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Get Out there and flirt
No matter what you think, to be a great flirt it's not necessary to be devastatingly attractive, rich, smooth, or good at batting your eyelashes. To master the fine art of flirting, follow these simple guidelines and you will be on your way to being the best flirt in town.
  • Give out the right signals Be sure, that you give out the right signals. If you are interested in some one enough to want to take it further then just flirting then flirt like mad. However if you are flirting just for the fun of it make sure that the man knows this, and that your body language isn't telling him otherwise.

  • Dress for the eye If you want someone to approach you it is much easier if you're wearing a conversation starter (i.e. a badge, a crazy wig.) This will also show that you have a funny side.

  • Feel good about yourself Feel good about yourself, about what you wear, about your hair and others will feel good about you.

  • Get eye contact Some people might take offence if you stare at them for a long period of time. Let the guy know you are trying to catch his eye then when you hold his gaze give a gentle smile and let your eyes drop to the floor. He won't feel intimidated and he will know that you are interested.

  • Smile This shows friendliness and self-confidence, which is viewed as one of the most attractive qualities a member of the opposite sex can have.

  • Who's watching Walk though a group of men and have your friends watch to see who is checking you out.

  • Mingle Walk about and mingle with people. Get to know friends of the guy you are trying to attract.

  • Separate yourself from friends Take time out to be alone for a bit. This will make you more approachable. Men some times feel awkward approaching a woman when she is in a crowd of other women.

  • Be polite If you aren't interested in a guy, be polite when you reject him. It takes a lot of courage to approach someone so be sure you turn him down in the way that you would appreciate being turned down.

  • Have a conversation starter ready It is know good approaching a man if you don't know what you are going to start the conversation off with. You could start with a witty line such as "great tie may I buy it from you when you are finished with it?" Or you could simply start with your name, but remember to back it up. He might be just as nervous as you.

  • Boost his ego A little flattery never hurt any body. Men have always used flattery on women to get what they want so why can't we women.

  • Be interested Ask him lots of open-ended questions. Ask him his interests, what he does for a living You may find that you have a lot in common other then physical attraction.

  • Make the first move A lot of men find it attractive when a woman approaches them and find it easier and more relaxing to talk openly.

  • Don't pretend Don't pretend to be something you are not especially if you would like to see the guy again.

    And finally Only give out our real phone number. If you decide to take things further.
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