|Get Out there and flirt
No matter what you think, to be a great flirt it's not necessary to be
devastatingly attractive, rich, smooth, or good at batting your eyelashes. To
master the fine art of flirting, follow these simple guidelines and you will be
on your way to being the best flirt in town.
Give out the right signals Be sure, that you give out the right signals.
If you are interested in some one enough to want to take it further then just
flirting then flirt like mad. However if you are flirting just for the fun of
it make sure that the man knows this, and that your body language isn't telling
Dress for the eye If you want someone to approach you it is much easier
if you're wearing a conversation starter (i.e. a badge, a crazy wig.) This will
also show that you have a funny side.
Feel good about yourself Feel good about yourself, about what you wear,
about your hair and others will feel good about you.
Get eye contact Some people might take offence if you stare at them for
a long period of time. Let the guy know you are trying to catch his eye then
when you hold his gaze give a gentle smile and let your eyes drop to the floor.
He won't feel intimidated and he will know that you are interested.
Smile This shows friendliness and self-confidence, which is viewed as
one of the most attractive qualities a member of the opposite sex can have.
Who's watching Walk though a group of men and have your friends watch to
see who is checking you out.
Mingle Walk about and mingle with people. Get to know friends of the guy
you are trying to attract.
Separate yourself from friends Take time out to be alone for a bit. This
will make you more approachable. Men some times feel awkward approaching a
woman when she is in a crowd of other women.
Be polite If you aren't interested in a guy, be polite when you reject
him. It takes a lot of courage to approach someone so be sure you turn him down
in the way that you would appreciate being turned down.
Have a conversation starter ready It is know good approaching a man if
you don't know what you are going to start the conversation off with. You could
start with a witty line such as "great tie may I buy it from you when you are
finished with it?" Or you could simply start with your name, but remember to
back it up. He might be just as nervous as you.
Boost his ego A little flattery never hurt any body. Men have always
used flattery on women to get what they want so why can't we women.
Be interested Ask him lots of open-ended questions. Ask him his
interests, what he does for a living You may find that you have a lot in common
other then physical attraction.
Make the first move A lot of men find it attractive when a woman
approaches them and find it easier and more relaxing to talk openly.
Don't pretend Don't pretend to be something you are not especially if
you would like to see the guy again.
And finally Only give out our real phone number. If you decide to take things