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Ten Hot tips for a great marriage
  • Stop trying to change your spouse it won't work. The only person you can change is yourself.

  • Stop finger pointing. Laying the blame on your partner does not help work on damage control.

  • Don't stop flirting with your spouse just because you are now officially married.

  • Do not let yourself be manipulated or pushed around. The more in control you are of your life the happier you are. Happy people make for happy relationships.

  • Communicate. Sit together and talk, share or even argue, but keep communication lines open at all times. Voice those niggling doubts or anxieties and get your spouse to do the same.

  • Focus on the positive aspects in your marriage. When you reach an area of disagreement. Agree to disagree and let it go at that.

  • But all talk and no action can be frustrating after a point. Learn to follow up on your discussions and keep those promises you've made.

  • Learn to let things pass. It doesn't matter if he has brought the wrong brand of toothpaste. Picking on the little things will only turn you into a grumpy nag.

  • Learn to accept. The toilet seat will be left up, the food will occasionally be burnt, there will be missed dinners, the credit card may by maxed out, etc. Accept and move on. It will be easier on your nerves.

  • Don't take your marriage for granted. Your relationship may have stood the test of time the seven year itch. But it pays to spice up the romance as often as possible
  • The way to a man's heart is through his stomach. So, plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready when he gets back. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him, and are concerned about his needs.
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