|10 Ways to be romantic
When we have been in a relationship for a while the romance seems to dwindle
and both parties in the relationship think that the other should be more
romantic. You read so often that the man should be the romantic one, and maybe
50 years ago this would have been so but this is no longer the case. Think back
to when you first met. The first dates, wining an dining, making an effort to
look your best, breakfast in bed, long weekends having frantic sex. Don't you
wish it was the same? Well I bet your partner also does. Instead of waiting for
him to make the first move (after all we know how slow men are. No offence
guys) you take the lead and add a bit of romance into your relationship.
Here are ten ways to show off your romantic side.
Pick up the phone: Give him a ring while he is at the office just to let him
know that you are thinking of him. Or if you are confident with phone sex tell
him what you are going to do to him once he gets home and in turn what you
would like him to do to you.
Fill the stocking: Men love sexy lingerie just as much as women if not more.
Let him know how much you want him by getting out your best knickers, team them
with a pair of fishnets, stilettos and seduce him tonight.
Feed his heart: You know the old saying the way to a mans heart is through his
stomach! Well you better believe it because it works every time. Get out the
best dinner set set the table with candles, put on some soft music and prepare
his favourite meal. You won't even need to think of dessert because this is
where he will become romantic and wisk you of to the bedroom.
Flirt: When was the last time you actually flirted with your partner? Go out in
public (to dinner, to a party or nightclub) and try it. It will boost both your
egos bring back those old feelings of lust for one an other. Think like a
single person and see what happens
Bedroom boudoir: Set the mood in your bedroom. Clear out all the clutter,
change the bed linen (bring in some silk sheets perhaps) and fill the room with
scented candles. Stand a bottle of your favourite bubbly in some ice, lay your
sexiest lingerie on the bed and keep a box of his favourite chocolates near by.
This is also an inexpensive way to give your bedroom a new look.
Use toys: If you want to add some spice to your love making then what better
way then to introduce some props.
Watch a flick: Rent a romantic movie, order a take away, get out a bottle of
your favourite wine, take the phone of the hook turn out the lights and snuggle
into each other on the sofa in front of the TV. The romantic flick will soon
have the two of you in the mood for love.
Love letters: Leave him little notes in his pocket, on his pillow, next to his
mother any where that he will find them that will give him a nice surprise.
Kiss.. him all of his body slowly
Three little words: Tell him that you love him at least once a day. This will
keep the love there even if you haven't always got time to express it, those 3
little words is all that you need.